Feeling Sad Topic

Deleted
Deleted Member

Posts: 0

Feeling Sad Topic Aug 13, 2015 2:35:09 GMT -1

Quote

Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2015 2:35:09 GMT -1

Does it feel like you will never find friends in the world like me only except on the internet who you will never meet face to face?

Never find a partner and have children?

Be co-dependent at a young age.

I know I'm smarter than that but I get put down a lot and I have lack of motivation and low self-esteem. I let myself go. :C

I still make mistakes from time to time.

My dad always tells me. Nobody out there will care about the same way as him and my mom but mostly my dad.

I'm in isolation.

I'm stuck with this friend that kinda made me do some things I didn't want to do.

I just see the good in all people, yeah. :<

I'm sorry for being a fool to you and everyone. :C

Whisker
Administrator

whisker

Posts: 17,102

Feeling Sad Topic Aug 13, 2015 7:37:26 GMT -1

Quote

Post by Whisker on Aug 13, 2015 7:37:26 GMT -1

that, Tomonag! It's good to have friends on the Internet, but I have learned not to rely on anybody that's on the Internet. They are "here today, gone tomorrow" when it suits them. I value their friendship, while it lasts, but I've learned there has to be balance in our lives and we have to make the effort to have people around us, who care - in Real Life. For that reason, I joined a group called "Active Retirement". They are really great and do get me away from the computer! On Monday, 7 of us went on a picnic and took in a visit to a beautiful garden. We had a lot of fun. This Saturday, we are going to the theatre - Bord Gais Energy Theatre, which I have never been to. Just by joining that group has made me do things I would not have done on my own.

Have a look around your area, Tomonag. Find a group, suitable to your age, who do things. This could be a Church group, Classes, Art or Poetry, Women's groups - women are far better than men at getting into groups. It's all a matter of Activity. You won't have your Dad or Mum around forever, Tomonag. It's up to you to make a move towards building a better life for yourself. It's not going to happen until you do! Please excuse tough words!

Last Edit: Aug 13, 2015 7:38:11 GMT -1 by Whisker

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Feeling Sad Topic Aug 13, 2015 8:00:24 GMT -1 Whisker likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2015 8:00:24 GMT -1 Thank you. :-)

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Feeling Sad Topic Sept 6, 2015 5:52:36 GMT -1 Whisker likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Sept 6, 2015 5:52:36 GMT -1 big hugs huns

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Feeling Sad Topic Oct 5, 2015 21:25:22 GMT -1 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2015 21:25:22 GMT -1 I know this is late marti but thanks. huge hugs :3

Whisker
Administrator

whisker

Posts: 17,102

Feeling Sad Topic Oct 6, 2015 7:49:03 GMT -1

Quote

Post by Whisker on Oct 6, 2015 7:49:03 GMT -1

It takes an effort to make new friends in RL. Going places where people of similar interests gather, is a starting point. You need to have patience and give new relationships time to develop - not be too clingy at the start. As I've mentioned before, joining Active Retirement, has widened my circle quite a lot. After going on that holiday with a group of them has made me some close acquaintances and one or two that consider me to be a friend. I have a chance of meeting them again at various meetings and activities, so there is a chance for the relationships to develop.

Every journey starts with the first step, as the old saying goes. That involves some courage and a little bravery sometimes.

Last Edit: Oct 6, 2015 8:06:20 GMT -1 by Whisker

Deleted
Deleted Member

Posts: 0

Feeling Sad Topic Oct 19, 2015 2:34:54 GMT -1

Quote

Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2015 2:34:54 GMT -1

I sometimes say things out of insecurity, so sue me. .____.;

Right now my path is on the present. Not past nor future. Friends will come to me within time, online are here, offline will come to me soon, hopefully. But I'm fine alone yet with some co-dependence because I am what I am, I am what I am and that's why and nobody can change that, Amen.

Last Edit: Oct 19, 2015 2:36:17 GMT -1 by Deleted

Whisker Administrator whisker Posts: 17,102	Feeling Sad Topic Oct 19, 2015 17:32:53 GMT -1 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Whisker on Oct 19, 2015 17:32:53 GMT -1 Everything works out in the end, Tomonag!

Gallery Title:
Image URL:
Comment:
Add Image

Gallery Title:
Image URL:
Comment:
Add Image

SeasonS

title

title

Quick Links to Boards

Feeling Sad Topic

Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2015 2:35:09 GMT -1

Post by Whisker on Aug 13, 2015 7:37:26 GMT -1

Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2015 8:00:24 GMT -1

Post by Deleted on Sept 6, 2015 5:52:36 GMT -1

Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2015 21:25:22 GMT -1

Post by Whisker on Oct 6, 2015 7:49:03 GMT -1

Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2015 2:34:54 GMT -1

Post by Whisker on Oct 19, 2015 17:32:53 GMT -1

Quick Reply